More of Enrique and Christian’s Garden

Today we’re back in the Forest Park, Illinois, garden of Enrique Zuniga and Christian Altman, a space they transformed from a blank piece of turfgrass into a beautiful garden that attracts pollinators and is enjoyed by them, their three dogs, and their friends alike. We saw some of the garden yesterday and are back to enjoy more of it today.

dense planting of pollinator plantsThis is a very urban area, not far from downtown Chicago, but Enrique and Christian have transformed their piece of this space into something that is beautiful and inviting to pollinators and other wildlife.

close up of pink coneflowersA bee has stopped by these coneflowers (Echinacea purpurea, Zones 3–8) for a meal.

close up of an ornamental grass with other plants behindOrnamental grasses can be beautiful for the way you can look through them like a veil to the rest of the plants behind.

space on side of house filled with plants and flowersThe narrow space between two houses is often just a forgotten strip of grass—but not here! Flowers and grasses fill the area with beauty and habitat for native insects.

close up of swamp milkweedSwamp milkweed (Asclepias incarnata, Zones 3–6) is a beautiful native perennial with fragrant pink flowers in midsummer. Like all milkweeds, it is a host plant for monarch butterfly caterpillars. Adult monarchs, like this one, visit as well for a hit of nectar.

garden border along a fence with a skinny conifer and various perennialsA narrow pine (Pinus sp.) provides a dramatic contrast to lower-growing perennials.

outdoor couch and chairs on a garden patioAn essential part of any garden is a spot to sit and enjoy it all.

close up of a red Mexican sunflowerMexican sunflower (Tithonia rotundifolia, annual) is a large, fast-growing annual with flowers in glowing orange or red. This bee loves it just as much as people do.

close up of yellow and purple flowers in the gardenOne last view of this beautiful garden is a reminder of what you can create even in a small, urban garden space.

 

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Bobbi Brown Vitamin Enriched Skin Tint Review

[unpaid/sample/affiliate/ad] I’m happy to see the new Vitamin Enriched Skin Tint from Bobbi Brown – it’s a product that could not be more up my street if it tried! On the Bobbi Brown website, there’s a brief FAQ section asking how the Vitamin Enriched Skin Tint is different to a BB Cream – honestly, as an early advocate of BB creams, I’ve by and largely forgotten about them completely. So many of the skin tints coming out now are BB Creams to the letter which continue their popularity in Asia but have gone by the wayside here. There’s no clear reason why other than brands have stopped marketing their tints as BBs.

Bobbi Brown Vitamin Enriched Skin Tint Review

I’d say that this new tint is pretty much a standard tinted moisturiser and a good addition to the Vitamin Enriched franchise – beautiful texture, very hydrating and I’d recommend for older or drier skin types.

Bobbi Brown Vitamin Enriched Skin Tint Review

The claims are for 12 hours of moisture and colour true wear, non-fading, non-creasing, non-settling, sweat and humidity resistant. The formula is using ‘pigment flex’ which is colour adaptive so your nearest shade should blend as your true shade. There’s SPF15 which is won’t make the current SPF50 advocates happy but I would be fine with this on a day like today (cloudy, occasional sun shine). Guidance from the World Health Organization is that a UV index of 3 and above will require sunscreen to prevent damage but bear in mind that the UK’s average UV index is 3.8 so for a good part of the year, SPF15 is adequate. It’s just common sense – higher SPF in summer, lower in winter, but ultimately, it’s up to you. The SPF waters have been very muddied by brands scaring us into SPF50 inside, outside, summer, winter and autumn. Eventually, there will be someone, somewhere, creating a night SPF.



Bobbi Brown Vitamin Enriched Skin Tint Review

Bottom shade is Medium 2 (which I’m wearing) and top shade is Light 3. Med 2 is possibly just a bit on the warm side. I gave it about 6 and half hours before taking it off with a wipe so I could clearly see evidence of what was coming away. Actually, despite the fact that it didn’t look nearly as pristine as it did at the start, there was plenty coming off – my lipstick and blush had faded away so I didn’t look how I did at the start but the tint did a pretty good job. My skin definitely felt hydrated throughout. It’s pricy at £38 HERE but if you get along with the Vitamin Enriched range generally, it’s a good addition to your make up bag.

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This Pest Control Attracts Roaches with Food and Water

Combat Max Roach Killing Gel, seen in the packaging.

Nobody likes finding roaches in their house. Unfortunately, finding them is a difficult job when you’re ready to apply pesticides. They hide in nooks and crannies you can hardly see, let alone treat!

That’s where COMBAT Max Roach Killing Gel comes in.


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Illustration of how to apply Combat Max Roach Killing Gel

Combat Max Road Killing Gel: Key Features

COMBAT Max Roach Killing Gel’s formula attracts roaches with the food and water they need.

And because it’s a gel you apply with a syringe, you can treat those nooks and crannies where roaches hang out.

Plus the gel starts killing both large and small roaches within a matter of hours by ingestion OR contact so you eliminate even more pests.

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Danny Lipford

Danny Lipford is a home improvement expert and television personality who started his remodeling business, Lipford Construction, at the age of 21 in Mobile, Alabama. He gained national recognition as the host of the nationally syndicated television show, Today’s Homeowner with Danny Lipford, which started as a small cable show in Mobile. Danny’s expertise in home improvement has also led him to be a contributor to popular magazines and websites and the go-to source for advice on everything related to the home. He has made over 200 national television appearances and served as the home improvement expert for CBS’s The Early Show and The Weather Channel for over a decade. Danny is also the founder of 3 Echoes Content Studio, TodaysHomeowner.com, and Checking In With Chelsea, a décor and lifestyle blog.

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Belgian Grand Prix: Lando Norris says he ‘completely destroyed’ McLaren floor in Qualifying at Spa-Francorchamps

Lando Norris was outqualified by McLaren team-mate Oscar Piastri, but was happy to be seventh on Friday after damaging his floor in Q1; watch the Belgian GP Sprint Shootout at 11am on Saturday live on Sky Sports F1, followed by the Sprint at 3:30pm

Last Updated: 28/07/23 7:01pm


Lando Norris has revealed he found qualifying 'a bit more of a struggle than for some of the others'.after picking up damage, and Oscar Piastri says he 'left quite a bit on the table'.

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Lando Norris has revealed he found qualifying ‘a bit more of a struggle than for some of the others’.after picking up damage, and Oscar Piastri says he ‘left quite a bit on the table’.

Lando Norris has revealed he found qualifying ‘a bit more of a struggle than for some of the others’.after picking up damage, and Oscar Piastri says he ‘left quite a bit on the table’.

Lando Norris has revealed he “completely destroyed his floor” in Q1 with his trip through the gravel, so was relieved to qualify seventh for the Belgian Grand Prix.

Norris went wide at Turn 16 in Q1 and his engineer initially reported front wing damage. However, the McLaren driver also damaged his floor as he found a way to reach Q2, then Q3.

The 23-year-old is looking to make it a hat-trick of podiums on Sunday at Spa-Francorchamps, after finishing second at Silverstone and the Hungaroring.

“I’m really happy. Frustrated I went off in Q1 and completely destroyed the floor, so I’m happy to have made it to Q3 and only a couple of tenths off what Oscar did,” Norris told Sky Sports F1.

“I think he did a good job, his middle sector was very strong. We’re very poor in the straights, so there’s wins and losses. I’m happy, it could have been a lot worse, I could have been out in Q1, so I’ll take P7.

“The whole thing [floor damage]. It can be repaired, I hope. Normally you can repair it. Tape is not going to help, we tried to tape it. [The mechanics] did a good job on getting as much as they can fixed but too much to be competitive today.

“I don’t think we’re bad. If we had a car that was together and I didn’t make a mistake in Q1, I think we could have had a slightly better day. We weren’t miles off the guys ahead but I’m happy I got what I did out of it. It’s frustrating because it was pretty close between us and some of the others, but hopefully tomorrow we can turn it into a better result.”

Lando Norris goes wide through Turn 16 but carries on despite possible front-wing damage.

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Lando Norris goes wide through Turn 16 but carries on despite possible front-wing damage.

Lando Norris goes wide through Turn 16 but carries on despite possible front-wing damage.

Team-mate Oscar Piastri qualified sixth and added: “I felt very comfortable when the conditions were really tricky like that. I think in some ways the track drying up and becoming closer to normal was a hindrance for me.

“I’ve not done a dry lap around here in an F1 car, so for braking points and stuff like that when offline is wet you never want to brake too late and that’s where I left quite a bit on the table, unfortunately.”

Hamilton: We have to understand one second loss in middle sector

Lewis Hamilton was happy with qualifying fourth for Mercedes but says they are still a 'chunk off' Max Verstappen in the Red Bull.

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Lewis Hamilton was happy with qualifying fourth for Mercedes but says they are still a ‘chunk off’ Max Verstappen in the Red Bull.

Lewis Hamilton was happy with qualifying fourth for Mercedes but says they are still a ‘chunk off’ Max Verstappen in the Red Bull.

Lewis Hamilton qualified fourth, but will start third on Sunday due to Max Verstappen’s five-grid place penalty for a fifth gearbox.

Mercedes elected to send their cars out early in each segment of Qualifying and Hamilton says it was a “big guessing game” as the track dried up.

“It was definitely very hectic because it was consistently drying up. It was very slippery at the beginning, difficult to see,” said Hamilton.

“I was just maximising because you know every lap is going to be faster than the next lap. That’s why we were at the end of the pit lane early each session. The team did a great job in getting us out and quick turnarounds. I was head down, just maximining as much as I could.

“At the end, still a good chunk off Max – pretty impressive. But I’m really happy with the result I’ve got.”

Lewis Hamilton says the Mercedes has progressed a 'huge amount' this season compared to where they started in Bahrain and the 'hard work' gives him hope the team is going in the right direction.

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Lewis Hamilton says the Mercedes has progressed a ‘huge amount’ this season compared to where they started in Bahrain and the ‘hard work’ gives him hope the team is going in the right direction.

Lewis Hamilton says the Mercedes has progressed a ‘huge amount’ this season compared to where they started in Bahrain and the ‘hard work’ gives him hope the team is going in the right direction.

Asked whether he can find more performance on Saturday, he added: “I have no idea. We will find out. It didn’t feel bad today. Generally, it has felt decent. It’s just the middle sector we are losing a second, so I have got to study it to figure out where that is, if there is any way with the package we have, whether we can close that.

“We obviously need to work on making some improvements. I will give it everything I’ve got tomorrow and hopefully the next Qualifying will be as good.”

Russell confused by Qualifying struggles

George Russell was on the backfoot for the majority of Qualifying at Spa and ended up eighth, 0.718s behind Hamilton and 1.6s adrift of Verstappen.

Russell used a bigger rear wing than Hamilton, which appeared to be the wrong choice as he lost a lot of time on the straights as the track dried out.

Sky Sports' Ted Kravitz takes a look at the upgrades Mercedes have made for the Belgian Grand Prix.

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Sky Sports’ Ted Kravitz takes a look at the upgrades Mercedes have made for the Belgian Grand Prix.

Sky Sports’ Ted Kravitz takes a look at the upgrades Mercedes have made for the Belgian Grand Prix.

“It was a dynamic session but just been off the pace to be honest. I struggled in that session, I don’t really know why. I normally love those transitional sessions but with that we were nowhere,” he said.

“A bit to try and review and understand. We know qualifying isn’t everything around here but definitely would’ve liked to be higher up the order.

“You’d always love to do more laps to understand the car. It didn’t feel too bad, just slow overall so a bit to try and understand. P8 is not a horrendous place to start on Sunday but definitely would’ve liked to be higher up the order.”

Mercedes sent George Russell and Lewis Hamilton out early in each part of Qualifying after being caught out at the Hungaroring

Mercedes sent George Russell and Lewis Hamilton out early in each part of Qualifying after being caught out at the Hungaroring

Sky Sports F1’s live Belgian GP schedule

Saturday July 29
8.55am: Formula 3 Sprint Race
10.30am: Belgian GP Sprint Shootout build-up
11am: Belgian GP Sprint Shootout
12.40pm: Formula 2 Sprint Race
2.30pm: Belgian GP Sprint build-up
3.30pm: BELGIAN GP SPRINT
5pm: Ted’s Sprint Notebook

Sunday July 30
7.25am: Formula 3 Feature Race
8.55am: Formula 2 Feature Race
12.30pm: Grand Prix Sunday – Belgian GP build-up
2pm: THE BELGIAN GRAND PRIX
4pm: Chequered Flag – Belgian GP reaction
5pm: Ted’s Notebook

Watch all sessions of the Sprint weekend at Spa live on Sky Sports F1. Stream the Belgian GP and more with NOW.





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A Tale Of Two Contractors (How Not To Do Business vs. How To Do Business Correctly)

Last week, I told y’all about a chance meeting I had in the Home Depot parking lot with a man who was the project manager on our garage-to-studio conversion several years ago. It just so happens that he is now working for one of the contractors I called about the addition we’re wanting to build on the back of our house. Knowing that he would once again be the project manager on our addition if I went with that company made me feel like it was meant to be!

But right after I hit “publish” on that post (which you can read here if you missed it), I got a call from a different contractor (I had called and left messages with three different contractors) who set up a meeting with me for last Friday. I figured it wouldn’t hurt to meet with both of them. The more info, the better, right? And it’s always better to get estimates from two or three before making a decision.

Well, I wish I hadn’t scheduled that first meeting at all. I was going into this meeting totally blind. Of course, I’ve worked with contractors before, but I’ve never had to work with the City of Waco to pull permits to tear down part of an existing building and then to build a 1000-square-foot addition onto a house before. I’ve never had to hire an engineer or an architect or a draftsperson or a designer before so that they can do all of the official drawings required by the city in order to add on 1000 square feet to a house before. All of this is brand new to me.

If you’re new around here, let me show you the addition we’re planning. This is what our house floor plan looks like right now…

And the plan is to tear down the huge “sunroom”, as well as the little room to the left of it (which was the original very tiny “master bathroom”), and add on these rooms…

While I’ve got plenty of DIY experience and I’ve worked with contractors to modify the existing rooms of the house, adding on 1000 square feet of living space to an existing house is a completely different animal. Most homeowners (including myself) wouldn’t know the first thing to do, which is why we hire contractors to take care of the entire process, right?

The contractor is the one who explains to the engineer what kind of foundation they need built, and the engineer designs it to the right specifications. The contractor is the one who works with the permit office to make sure all of the proper plans are on file, and he’s the one who pulls the permits and works with the inspectors to make sure everything is just right. The contractor is the one who knows and understands the step-by-step process to get from concept to completion.

That’s the experience and expertise that you’re paying for when you hire a contractor (or any other professional), and you expect them to do their job without heaping loads and loads of extraneous stress and problems onto your shoulders before and during the project. (Yes, additions are inherently stressful for homeowners, but I think you understand what I mean.)

Well, that is not at all the vibe I got from the first contractor I met with. As we were talking through the details of the addition, he kept telling me about just how stressful and virtually impossible it is to get anything done with the city of Waco, and how awful the permit office is because of all of the hoops they make you go through, and how horrible the building inspectors can be to work with. He was telling about how this addition will have them basically scrutinizing other areas of the house, which may end up with other parts of the house having to be redone if they don’t pass the energy efficiency test or this other test or that other test. (Which freaked me out because, while we’ve done our best with new insulation and windows, this is still a 75-year-old house).

I felt as though he was literally trying to talk me out of doing the addition (even though he literally said, “I mean, I’m not trying to talk you out of it, but…”) because the whole process was going to be virtually impossible to get approved, and working with the city was way more difficult than I could ever imagine, and they would make my life a nightmare for the duration of the building process.

I felt so discouraged and defeated that when he finally walked out the front door that I closed the door behind him and just cried. I seriously thought that we had made a huge mistake buying this house with the idea of adding on. In that instant, I regretted all of the time, effort, and money I had put into this house making it ours. Through tears, I texted my mom.

After a good cry, I wiped away my tears and felt determined not to let that meeting keep me down, so I called the other contractor who our previous project manager now works for and set up a meeting with him for yesterday morning.

I was dreading that meeting. I was expecting the same bad news from him, and preparing myself for a lifetime of using a small guest bedroom as our main bedroom, and having a huge master bathroom just randomly sitting by itself in the floor plan, and never having a dining room again because Matt requires a place for his recliner, and having to explain to every guest that tours our house in the future how we bought the house with plans to add on, but the city made it impossible, so here we are with a crazy floor plan that makes no sense.

Thankfully, I had the very opposite experience. Y’all, this one was amazing! He was so nice, and so knowledgeable, and so encouraging. After about ten minutes, I was still waiting for the other shoe to drop, so I just asked him, “Does this project seem doable? I mean, do you do a lot of work inside the city of Waco? Do you have a lot of experience working with the people in the building permit and building inspection offices?” He laughed and said, “Oh, yeah! If I didn’t work inside the city of Waco, I’d lose about 95% of my business!”

He went on to tell me that, yes, some of the inspectors can be challenging at times, but knows them, he gets along with them, and they have great working relationships with each other. And he’s never had a problem getting a project past the inspection process, even if it does require a few modifications to make a picky inspector happy with some little details. He said he works with a great engineer and architect and draftsperson who all submit plans to the city regularly.

He explained that the whole building process, from concept to completion, will be a long process because the building inspections employees are always shorthanded and overworked, but there was nothing unusual at all about the addition we’re wanting to build, and he didn’t anticipate any problems with it. His whole attitude was basically we may run into a problem or a few bumps in the road along the way, but there are always ways around those, and the project will get finished. And handling those bumps in the road is one of the reasons you hire me.

He was so thorough in explaining the whole process to me — everything from having plans drawn up, to planning and budgeting and change orders, and just about everything I could have asked. By the time he left, I felt so excited and encouraged and ready to sign on the dotted line to get this project started.

As I’ve compared and contrasted those two meetings, I’ve been utterly amazed at the stark differences. One left me in tears. The other left me excited and anxious to hand over my money and get started. And it all boiled down to the differences in attitude and presentation between the two. There are some very significant business lessons in there somewhere. How not to do business vs. how to do business correctly. How to present info to a potential customer vs. how not to present info to a potential customer. How to generate positive word-of-mouth advertising vs. how to destroy your word-of-mouth reputation. How to ruin your business vs. how to make your business thrive.

Anyway, maybe it was good that I met with the first one after all. Having the awfulness of that first meeting fresh in my memory made me appreciate the second meeting all the more. And yes, I’ve definitely found my contractor for the addition. I’m very excited to work with this building company, and also very happy that my old, familiar project manager from several years ago will be overseeing the biggest project we’ll ever do on this house.



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5 Lovely Bathrooms: Sunday Strolls & Scrolls

5 Lovely Bathrooms: Sunday Strolls & Scrolls
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I think one of the most exciting things about our kitchen remodel being nearly done is that it means we will be done cooking in our bathroom! Ha! I am looking forward to having our bathroom be just a bathroom again. We will also have an extra “new” bathroom now that my parents’ have their tiny cottage! We haven’t changed that bathroom at all since we moved in so that will be a fun opportunity to do some simple updates to personalize it. Our powder bathroom downstairs with the whale wallpaper is getting a fresh coat of paint this week, too! These beautiful bathrooms in today’s post are inspiring me, I hope you enjoy!

5 Lovely Bathrooms: Sunday Strolls & Scrolls

Sunday Strolls + Scrolls is a series inspired by the interiors and exterior spaces I fell in love with while scrolling the internet. I particularly enjoy finding spaces and ideas that reflect a sense of sanctuary! I hope this series will feel as relaxing and enjoyable to you as a leisurely walk down a charming street, a peaceful stroll through a garden or finally getting to peek inside a lovely neighborhood home during a Sunday open house. 

5 Lovely Bathrooms: Sunday Strolls & Scrolls
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YSL Candy Glaze Lip Gloss Stick (new shades)

YSL Candy Glaze Lip Gloss Stick Review

YSL launched new shades of the Candy Glaze Lip Gloss Stick ($39 each) and they are stunning! I tried this formula when it originally launched in Shade 02 for a pretty clear juicy shine but the other shades never really stood out to me. There are new colors in Shades 13, 14 and 15 and they do not disappoint! I ordered a few other shades too and love every single one.

The formula of the YSL Candy Glaze is a jelly-like lipstick lip gloss. They have a twist click top and recommend six clicks for one application. They are on the soft side for the formula. Not as soft as the Makeup by Mario MoistureGlow Plumping Lip Serums though.

YSL Candy Glaze Lip Gloss Stick Review

Pigment and color payoff is pretty impressive for a glossy lip stick (although 02 Sweet Pink is pretty much clear on me). They have a slightly thick almost jelly like texture so the lasting power is very good for a glossy lip. They are sweetly scented with a candy mango like scent. They feel very comfortable on the lips and have less slip than the Rouge Volupte Shines which I still love, but I actually like the Candy Glaze formula better. Shades I hauled:

  • 02 Sweet Pink is a clear milky pink
  • 04 Nude Pleasure is a caramel peach brown
  • 05 Pink Satisfaction is a deep rose pink
  • 13 Flashing Rosé is a healthy medium rose pink
  • 14 Scenic Brown is a 90s neutral brown glaze
  • 15 Showcasing Nude is a perfect nude pink

Two sets of swatches to show the color and shine

YSL Candy Glaze Lip Gloss Stick swatches

YSL Candy Glaze Lip Gloss Stick swatches

Swatches of each shade below, also wearing:

YSL Candy Glaze Lip Gloss Stick 02 Sweet Pink

YSL Candy Glaze Lip Gloss Stick 04 Nude Pleasure

YSL Candy Glaze Lip Gloss Stick 05 Pink Satisfaction

YSL Candy Glaze Lip Gloss Stick 13 Flashing Rose

YSL Candy Glaze Lip Gloss Stick 14 Scenic Brown

YSL Candy Glaze Lip Gloss Stick 15 Showcasing Nude

Shade 13 Flashing Rose is my favorite that I’ve been wearing on repeat. It’s also the one many of you keep asking about from my Instagram stories!

YSL Candy Glaze Lip Gloss Stick Review

A few of you asked if I had any issues with the product melting and I can’t say that I have yet. The heat is so extreme here we are outdoors for a very limited time (ie walking from the car to a restaurant or store). I have the lipstick in my purse but we are usually only outdoors for a short time or under a shaded patio with fans blasting. Evenings outdoors are more tolerable and I haven’t had any melting issues. YMMV depending on how hot it is where you are.

You can see them in action here too!

 

Bottom line perfect. The new shades seem to be only available at Sephora and YSL Beauty so far. Other shades can be found at all other retailers like Nordstrom, Bloomingdale’s, Saks Fifth Avenue and Macy’s.

Have you tried these yet? What did you think?

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P.S. If you’ve been looking for the Couture Mini Clutch Eyeshadows they just launched at Bloomingdale’s. I’m not sure if I will be purchasing any, currently debating whether to buy these new ones or the Cle de Peau Eyeshadow Quads.

 





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How to Avoid Micromanaging (When You Just Want to Help)

Have you ever found yourself at the crossroads of delegation and assistance? The familiar predicament that leaders often face.

You aim to steer a proficient team, delegating tasks to your members, while simultaneously carrying an anxiety that makes you peek over their shoulders, just to ensure that things are on the right track.

Your well-intentioned oversight, however, might be perceived as micromanagement by your team. Worse still, you might unwittingly fall into the snare of micromanagement without even realizing it.

Trust me, I’ve been there.

I empathize with these feelings because I’ve walked that path myself. Thrust into a leadership position at a young age in my first company, I was tasked with managing a diverse team with varying backgrounds and skills.

Equipped with naivety and youthful enthusiasm, I believed the quickest way to get things done was to take care of everything myself. A logical fallacy, as it turns out. Rather than promoting efficiency, I was merely overcommitting, and unsurprisingly, the quality of the results suffered.

As I built my team at LifeHack, I navigated a labyrinth of team management methods, a journey characterized by both triumphs and setbacks. Determined not to micromanage, I handed over projects, goals, and tasks to some team members, only to find that they were not quite ready to bear the entire load on their own. They needed more guidance, more of my input.

At other times, in my quest to provide help, I inadvertently tipped over into micromanaging. It was during one such instance that a team member made me aware of it. She expressed feeling stifled, lacking the freedom to be creative. A bitter pill to swallow, but a necessary lesson to learn.

Through this crucible of trials, errors, and accumulated wisdom, I’ve gained a better grasp of leadership and the fine balance it requires. Over the years, I have honed my skills and I now stand ready to share my insights with you.

This article is my guide to all leaders and managers, a testament to my journey, offering advice on how to steer clear from the pitfall of micromanaging.

Why Would You Micromanage?

According to the Harvard Business Review, the urge to micromanage often springs from two main sources:

  1. Managers want to feel connected with lower-level workers. They desire to remain in touch with the ground realities, to keep a pulse on the daily operations.
  2. Managers find comfort in executing tasks that once fell within their purview, rather than overseeing employees who are now entrusted with those responsibilities.

But the roots of micromanagement often run deeper. Let’s delve into a few more reasons:

Fear of things going awry is a major driver.

As a leader, you might find yourself worrying that if you don’t keep a tight leash, things will veer off course. This fear, while understandable, can morph into micromanagement if not kept in check.

A subtle belief that you can execute tasks better than others.

This could stem from your past experience and successes. But remember, your role now is to guide and mentor, not to do all the work.

The desire for control.

It’s a natural human instinct, wanting to control all variables to ensure a positive outcome. As a manager, this might translate into an overbearing supervision of your team’s activities.

Recognizing these tendencies is the first step towards avoiding the trap of micromanaging. Being aware can help you make conscious decisions to change these patterns.

You might want to be involved, but there’s a fine line between guiding your team and controlling them. As a leader, it’s your job to walk that line.

Are You Aware of the Consequences of Micromanagement?

Micromanagement, while often stemming from a well-intentioned place, has some serious repercussions.

When teams are under a magnifying glass, they begin to feel perpetually monitored and corrected, always falling short of their boss’s expectations. In the long haul, this can be taxing not just for the employees but also for the manager and the organization.

Let’s break down the impacts of micromanagement:

  • Eroded confidence: Employees start to question their abilities, leading to self-doubt. They become apprehensive about taking initiatives, worried about falling under criticism.
  • Damaged trust: Micromanagement can sever the trust between you and your team. They may begin to view you not as a mentor and guide, but as a constant critic.
  • Reduced productivity: When employees spend too much time seeking approvals and worrying about criticism, their focus shifts from doing their best work. This can drastically lower productivity.
  • Diminished motivation and morale: Constant monitoring drains the enthusiasm out of employees. Over time, the team’s morale drops and motivation to perform wanes.
  • Impacted mental well-being: Persistent micromanagement can lead to stress and anxiety, affecting the mental health of employees. Studies show that this can affect their overall performance and job satisfaction.
  • Stifled creativity and teamwork: When a leader micromanages, it constricts the creative space for employees. It also hampers teamwork, as everyone starts to depend solely on the manager’s input.
  • Increased turnover rate: Eventually, this environment can lead to high employee turnover. In fact, 36% of employees have changed jobs as a result of a micromanager, according to a survey. This not only disrupts the team’s rhythm but also incurs recruitment and training costs for the company.

If you find yourself leaning towards micromanagement, these consequences are good reminders to avoid just that.

How to Avoid (Or Stop) Micromanaging

At the end of the day, our goal as leaders isn’t just to get the job done, but to build teams that can carry the mission forward even in our absence. That’s what true leadership is all about. It’s not about controlling every detail, but guiding the team in the right direction and then stepping back to let them shine.

Here’re 9 strategies to help you avoid or stop micromanaging:

1. Set up Clear Initial Guidelines When You Delegate

This is a straightforward and powerful approach. When you delegate a task, ensure you lay down a comprehensive roadmap. Clear guidelines offer direction, giving your team the confidence to navigate tasks independently, without the fear of straying off course.

How do you do this effectively? Let me share a personal example.

At LifeHack, I started writing handbooks and project specifications. These tools served as compasses for my team members. They delineated the tasks at hand, the objectives, the do’s and don’ts, and the final goals. This clarity ensured everyone was on the same page and allowed them to work independently, reducing the need for my constant oversight.

Remember, when you delegate, you’re not just handing over tasks. You’re entrusting your team members with a responsibility. Providing clear guidelines not only sets them up for success but also eases your worry about things going off track. It’s a win-win.

2. Delegate Work to Capable Members / Hire Suitable Individuals

A strong, capable team is an antidote to micromanagement.

As a leader, ensure that the work you delegate aligns with the abilities and strengths of your team members. When tasks fall into the hands of capable individuals, you can rest easy, knowing that the work is in good hands.This step-by-step guide would be useful for you: How to Delegate Tasks Effectively (Step-by-Step Guide)

Building such a team begins at the hiring stage. Selecting the right individuals for your team is paramount. Look for individuals who not only have the necessary skills but also show a willingness to learn and adapt. They should be able to handle tasks independently, yet remain open to guidance and feedback.

When you have a capable team, the need to constantly oversee dwindles. You can focus on guiding and mentoring, rather than getting entangled in the minutiae of every task. This not only makes your life easier but also helps your team to grow, learn, and develop confidence in their abilities.

3. Align Expectations with Shared Goals And Milestones

Clear goals and milestones are not just markers on the roadmap of a project; they’re also a powerful tool to avoid micromanagement. This aligns expectations around these goals, not just the tasks that lead to them.

Before any project or task begins, sit down with your team and discuss the intended goals. Break down these goals into achievable milestones. This way, everyone knows what they’re working towards. It’s not about ticking off tasks on a checklist, but about achieving a common objective.

At LifeHack, whenever a new project landed on our table, we had a ritual. The team and I would gather around, discuss the goals and the milestones that would get us there.

This wasn’t a one-sided discourse. It was a dialogue, an exchange of ideas and suggestions. This ensured that everyone was on board with the plan, aligned not just with the tasks but with the end vision. This practice greatly reduced the need for me to hover over my team members.

When you align expectations, you empower your team to make decisions that best serve the project’s goals. And this, in turn, creates an environment where innovation can thrive, free from the shackles of micromanagement.

4. Implement a Check-In System For Project Transparency

Keeping track of progress doesn’t require you to hover over your team’s shoulder all the time. You can do this by setting up a regular check-in system. Such a system not only keeps you informed but also ensures your team members are aware of their progress, fostering a sense of shared responsibility.

This is where project management tools come into play. These tools offer an overview of tasks, milestones, and deadlines, keeping everyone in sync. More importantly, they help create a transparent work environment where everyone can see how their individual efforts contribute to the big picture.

At LifeHack, we turned to tools like GTMHub and Basecamp. These platforms became our mission control centers. They tracked our milestones, displayed our tasks, and their progress.

This meant I didn’t need to keep asking my team about their progress. All I had to do was log in, and the information was right there. More importantly, my team could see the fruits of their efforts and how their work impacted our projects.

Regular check-ins and transparent tracking foster a sense of autonomy in your team. It sends a clear message: you trust them to get the job done. And that is a surefire way to steer clear of the micromanagement highway.

5. Focus on Your Unique Role: Do Only What Only You Can Do

Remember the old adage, “stick to what you know best”? In leadership, a slight twist on this saying can help you avoid micromanagement: “Do only what only you can do.”

As a leader, your primary role isn’t to do everyone’s job but to guide, inspire, and ensure that the ship stays on course. It’s about steering the vision, creating the roadmap, setting the boundaries within which your team operates.

Your focus should be on activities exclusive to your position, like strategic planning, team building, fostering a positive work environment, and maintaining relationships with stakeholders.

By focusing on tasks that only you can do, you free up time for your team to excel in their areas of expertise. This not only improves the team’s efficiency but also fosters a sense of trust and autonomy among the team members.

In essence, leadership isn’t about controlling how every job gets done. It’s about managing the outcomes, ensuring that your team’s collective efforts align with your shared goals.

6. Be a Facilitator, Not a Task Manager

Stepping back from micromanagement requires a shift in mindset. Think of yourself less as a taskmaster, doling out orders, and more as a facilitator, enabling your team to reach their potential. This involves fostering an environment of open communication, where dialogue is free-flowing, ideas are exchanged, and problems are discussed openly.

When your team knows they can come to you with their issues or queries, they’re more likely to solve problems independently and approach their work with confidence. Being approachable and showing that you trust your team can go a long way towards fostering a culture of autonomy and responsibility.

One way to show trust is by sharing your thoughts, concerns, and the ‘why’ behind your decisions. This invites your team into your thought process and helps them understand your expectations. Keep your inquiries to a minimum – enough to stay informed but not so much as to encroach on their work process.

At LifeHack, we emphasized the importance of open communication. I made sure my team knew that I was there to guide and support them, not to dictate their every move.

By articulating my expectations and the reasoning behind them, I ensured everyone was on the same page, which fostered a strong sense of camaraderie and a shared vision.

The goal is to build a team that functions cohesively, where everyone understands the bigger picture and their role within it.

7. Be Open to the Right Queries

Being an accessible leader doesn’t mean you should entertain every minute query that comes your way. The key here is to encourage the right type of questions — the ones that stimulate thought, foster creativity, and align with your project goals.

Your time is valuable, and it’s best spent on significant questions related to brainstorming, strategic planning, and goal alignment. Encourage your team to approach you with big-picture queries, those that can drive the project forward, or add a new perspective to your collective goals.

I always encouraged this kind of dialogue with my team. I was open to questions, yes, but more importantly, I was open to questions that mattered. Questions that could impact our projects, shift our perspective, or inspire new ideas. My team knew they could count on me for guidance on these larger issues, and that they were trusted to handle the day-to-day details on their own.

This selective openness serves a dual purpose. It saves you from getting tangled in the daily nitty-gritty and ensures your focus stays where it truly belongs – on the broader vision. Simultaneously, it empowers your team to take charge of their tasks, effectively keeping micromanagement at bay.

8. Equip Your Team for Independence

One of the most effective ways to curb micromanagement tendencies is by empowering your team. And what better way to empower them than by equipping them with the necessary skills to take on tasks and solve problems independently?

Invest in training your team. Help them expand their skill sets, knowledge, and competencies. When your team members are confident in their abilities, they’re less likely to require constant supervision. This allows you to step back, confident in their capacity to perform their tasks effectively.

Training your team members is essentially a long-term investment. You’re not just preparing them to handle their current tasks better, but also equipping them to take on bigger challenges in the future. In the process, you’re setting up a system that functions efficiently even without constant oversight, effectively avoiding the trap of micromanagement.

9. Embrace a Fail-Forward Mindset

Perfectionism often fuels the urge to micromanage. We want things done just so, and any deviation can seem like a failure.

But here’s a truth we often overlook: failure isn’t the enemy. In fact, it’s a potent teacher. If you truly want your team to grow, you must be willing to grant them the autonomy to try, to fail, and to learn from their mistakes.

Adopting a fail-forward mindset involves viewing failure as a stepping stone towards success, rather than a stumbling block. When your team members are allowed to fail and learn, they inevitably acquire valuable lessons that drive them towards faster success.

We embraced this philosophy wholeheartedly at LifeHack. We weren’t just open to failure, we welcomed it as an opportunity for learning and growth. When things didn’t go as planned, we didn’t focus on the setback; instead, we analyzed what we could learn from it and how we could do better next time.

A leader’s role is more of a coach than a captain. It’s not your job to steer the ship on every single journey, but to guide your team so they can navigate the seas themselves.

Bottom Line

Micromanagement isn’t just about being overly involved in the work of your team. It’s about trust – or rather, a lack of it. Trust in your team, their skills, their commitment, and their capacity to rise to the occasion. Give them the tools they need to succeed, then let them get on with it.

It’s a shift that requires letting go, but the payoff is enormous: a team that’s more engaged, more productive, and more capable of achieving great things. As a leader, there’s no greater achievement than that.

In my journey from young team leader to seasoned manager, I’ve learned these lessons firsthand. It’s not an easy road, but it’s one worth traveling. I hope these insights can serve as helpful guideposts, steering you away from the path of micromanagement and toward the way of empowered leadership.

Always remember: great leaders don’t create followers; they create more leaders. So let go, trust your team, and watch as they rise to meet the challenges ahead. You’re not just building a stronger team – you’re building the leaders of tomorrow.



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1960s Home Gets New Garage Doors

First-time homeowner Aaron Caldwell bought his 1960s home about 3 years ago.

He is the second owner of the 55-year-old house and decided he wanted to update it, but he needs our help with curb appeal ideas!

He started on the inside with improvements such as updating the kitchen, repainting walls, and more. Then, he moved onto the outside, including repaving his driveway and replacing his front windows, but it wasn’t enough.

Now that the inside fits his liking, he wants to fully tackle the outside, so we’re going to give him the curb appeal his home deserves!


The Projects

This image shows the removal process of the wrought iron. A saw is being used for an easy removal process.
One curb appeal idea is to replace outdated parts of the home, such as wrought iron, and replace it with something new and modern. (3 Echoes Content Studio)

Replacing Wrought Iron

With the new look that Aaron is wanting for the front of his house, the wrought iron does not match. But because the wrought iron is load-bearing, we must put something in its place to hold the weight. So, we decide to use 6-by-6 wood columns to replace it.

To begin, we used a jack and wood columns to raise the soffit. Once we did that, we removed the wrought iron and sawed the leftover screw heads down.

This image shows a wood column being installed using a galvanized saddle, screws, and a drill.
It is important to use a galvanized saddle for extra support when installing new columns. (3 Echoes Content Studio)

Next, John installed the columns with a galvanized saddle and screwed it into each side. After the columns were secured, we used more wood to create a trim around them to make them look even better.

This image shows the new columns with the added trim.
The trim and the new paint color make the house look more cohesive than before. (3 Echoes Content Studio)

Originally, Aaron wanted to stain the wood columns, but after further consideration, we decided to paint the columns a neutral color. This way, the columns match the trim that was already there, and the paint would require less maintenance than a stain.

The best part about these columns is that Aaron found the original plans for the house, and sure enough, the columns that we added are almost identical to the ones on the original house.


This image shows the original garage doors. They are brown and the two doors do not match.
The old garage doors were dull and took away from the overall curb appeal. They didn’t even match. (3 Echoes Content Studio)

Replace Garage Doors

Aaron’s garage doors are the first thing you see when you approach his house.

Because of that, Aaron wants those doors to be updated and fixed. The double doors that were originally installed are not the same door, and the one on the left fails to work.

First, installers from Wayne Dalton Garage Doors removed the existing doors and enhanced the framing around the openings, so the new doors can withstand greater wind loads.

This image shows the garage doors being installed by Wayne Dalton.
In order to tackle the main eyesore, installing the garage doors was necessary. (3 Echoes Content Studio)

Next, they installed new garage doors. These not only updated the look of the outside but also increased the functionality because the old ones didn’t even work as they should!

This image shows the importance of curb appeal. The new garage doors add new life to the home. They are now a neutral color and look more modern.
Aaron’s curb appeal is enhanced now that he has new and improved garage doors. (3 Echoes Content Studio)

The new doors that Aaron chose were the perfect complement to the house’s existing exterior. The doors are identical to one another, and the light beige color makes it appealing to the eye.

Now, Aaron is proud of his house when people come to visit!


This image shows the landscape before the revamp. The plants are dead and dry.
This landscaping desperately needed to be revamped. (3 Echoes Content Studio)

Adding New Landscaping

Aaron was not shy about the fact that he could not keep a plant alive. His mom helped him add landscaping to his front lawn, but because of Aaron’s neglect to water them, they died shortly after.

To update the drab and dead landscaping, we cleaned out the old beds and prepared them for new plant life.

This image shows the new landscaping with pink flowers, bushes, and mulch.
With this new landscaping, Aaron’s curb appeal is better than ever! (3 Echoes Content Studio)

To help Aaron keep his plants alive, we chose drought-friendly plants, but they still need some water. We added a soaker hose that will water the plants on a timer so that this new landscaping will hopefully last longer than the previous.

The new plants enhanced the overall look of his house!


This image shows a paint roller applying the new concrete coating.
Other projects, such as painting the front door, adding shutters, and matching the concrete, are all great curb appeal ideas to make your front porch look better. (3 Echoes Content Studio)

We Also

  • Added shutters two shades darker than the siding
  • Coated the porch with Terrazzo from Daich Coatings
  • Re-stained the existing concrete to match the new driveway
  • Repainted the front door a blue color

Post-Production Thoughts

This image shows the after of the makeover. The house has curb appeal and looks nicer and more modern.
The new garage doors, updated landscaping, new columns, shutters, door paint, and matched concrete made Aaron’s home the best-looking one on the block. (3 Echoes Content Studio)

Aaron’s house was suffering from an identity crisis. The clean, modern lines were confused by the wrought iron columns. The new driveway and windows were offset by old concrete and ancient garage doors.

But now, the house has found itself. The new garage doors add character, making them a focal point on the house rather than something to overlook.

The new columns and shutters work with the home’s clean lines instead of against them. And the Terrazzo coating on the porch defines it and separates it from the driveway.

Plus, the new front door color and the lush landscaping create the perfect welcome for Aaron’s guests.


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Adding My Floral Design To The Studio Back Entry (I Found A Way!)

If you’ve been following my studio project, you know that I really wanted to add the floral mural that I created for the long front wall of the studio to the walls of the back entry also. I even did a mock up of it, and started getting really excited about the idea.

But then I was faced with the reality of money and budget and all of those not-so-fun things to think about. Wallpapering the back entry would have cost over a thousand dollars, and while I’m open to some splurges here and there, that one wasn’t high on my priority list. So I decided instead to paint the walls a solid color and add lots of colorful artwork to the walls.

I haven’t changed my mind. That’s still the plan. But I just couldn’t let go of the idea of bringing that floral into that part of the room in some creative way. Some of you had suggested framing sections of the mural wallpaper and using it as art on the walls, while others had suggested using it just on the ceiling.

I didn’t really want to do either one of those things, so while I was uploading and ordering my large design for the mural wallpaper, I also decided to upload a smaller version of the design and see what it would look like on fabric. For a while now, I’ve been considering using that floral design on their velvet fabric to reupholster my desk chair. (This is why I use so much velvet for upholstery.) I love how the fabric looks, and I was pretty set on the idea of using it for the chair.

I’ve really only ever used Spoonflower to upload things that I want to try for my own house, and I’ve always done so with a very specific project in mind. So while I knew they offered a lot of different products beyond just wallpaper and fabric, I’ve never really paid much attention to those other products, much less considered purchasing any of them.

But this time, I decided to poke around a little and see what they had, and see how my floral design looked on the various products. It turns out that they offer a lot of different products–everything from fabric and wallpaper to cocktail napkins, throws, bedding, pillows, and curtains.

Tea towels! I may get a few of those for my kitchen. What a fun, bright pattern to have on tea towels!

As I was looking around at everything they offer, I saw those curtains, and thought, “That’s it!” I can purchase the fabric and use that to make curtains for the back door! They do offer ready-made curtains, and the price isn’t bad. But I don’t like rod pocket headers, and there’s no option to have them lined. But at least I could see what the fabric looks like made into curtains!

So instead of buying their ready-made curtains, I bought six yards of fabric so that I could make my own lined pinch-pleated curtains. And while it won’t exactly give me that same look that having the bold mural on the walls would have, this will still give me lots of the same bold color and pattern at a fraction of the cost. I’m pretty excited about this idea! Here’s a little mock up of what the curtains will look like…

I do still plan to paint the walls. That green just doesn’t do anything for me anymore. But I don’t love the idea of painting the walls a neutral color, either. I like the boldness of the green, but I just don’t like that particular green. I don’t think it would look good with the cabinet color, which I’m about 95% sure will be the Tuberose color on the left in the picture below.

Maybe I can pull one of the darker blues or purples out of the fabric and use that on the walls. I think a darker blue or purple would look great with the cabinet color. And I’ve already used similar colors together in the adjacent room (the sitting room) with the buffet color and the curtain color, so I know I like them together.

So, we’ll see! I should get the fabric tomorrow, and then I can pick up some paint samples and start narrowing down the possibilities.



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